Not to get too personal, but some of the best sex I’ve ever had has been in the backseat of a car. Hear me out: There’s more support to grab onto than on a bed; the sheer change in location makes it more erotic; and you’re forced to sit up instead of lay down. You know what else gets to all of those points without putting you at risk for a public indecency ticket? Sex furniture.
“Sex furniture is furniture that’s designed specifically to enhance the experience of sexual behaviors because it’s great for supporting bodies of all shapes, sizes, and physical abilities,” says Chanta Blue, LCSW, a sexuality and relationship therapist. She adds: “It is also helpful in creating varied angles for easy access to genitals and deeper penetration for more pleasurable experiences.”
- What to know before you buy sex furniture
- Best sex furniture
- Carol Queen, PhD, sexologist at Good Vibrations
- Chanta Blue, LCSW, sex therapist and licensed clinical social worker
- Javay Frye-Nekrasova, M.Ed, sex educator known as The Millennial Sexpert
Javay Frye-Nekrasova, M.Ed, a sex educator known as The Millennial Sexpert, says that sex furniture may make it easier for you to stay in positions longer and even reduce strain on your body. This is especially handy, adds sexologist Carol Queen, PhD, for folks with “mobility issues or chronic pain, since a couple of models hold your vibrator for you.”
Tl;Dr: Sex furniture just *hits* different. But before you redecorate your living room, read this first. Then, sit back and “relax” on of these sexy chaises or chairs.
Questions to ask yourself when shopping for sex furniture
1. How much space am I actually working with?
“You are definitely going to want to keep your space in mind,” says Frye-Nekrasova. “Storage is important as most sex furniture pieces aren’t daily staples and most can’t be compressed back to the small size that they are when they come in the packaging.”
The fix? Identify the space where you’d like your new piece to go, then measure it for width, length, and height. “You don’t want to purchase a piece and it ends up not fitting where you want it to go,” cautions Blue. To be extra cautious, try to purchase something a little smaller than the measurements you get.
2. Is this piece of furniture going to be easy for me to clean?
Because you’re getting down and dirty on these pieces, it’s crucial to keep them as clean as possible. After all, there are a lot of bodily fluids getting on them. “I’d consider whether or not the cover is removable and washable. That’s a must for sex,” says Queen. “An exception might be the leather or faux leather covers that can be cleaned while they’re on.”
3. What kind of play do you hope to use your sex furniture for?
If you want to have aerial sex, then a sex swing will likely be your go-to. If you want to something more supportive, look for something built to elevate certain body parts, like your hips or back. If you’re looking to get restrained, you’ll want something to which you can be tied. “Think it through,” recommends Queen. “Some companies have customer service humans who can help you narrow down your choice.”
Ready to take your sex life to new heights (or depths, rather)? Scroll on for our favorite sex furniture picks, all sexpert-approved.
