What you need to know and what you need to do
According to Google statistics, how to get your ex-boyfriend back is certainly a popular question.
It seems like all of us, at one point in our life, wants to get our ex-boyfriend back.
How to get him back
To achieve your goal, you have to increase your value by making positive changes in your life. Allow plenty of time to pass and forget about your ex-boyfriend and his life. Go on a journey instead of contacting your ex-boyfriend.
Lastly, create a platform that allows you to spend time with your ex-boyfriend so that he has a chance to see the new, improved version of you.
Become a stronger version of yourself
Sounds good, right? But before I start describing the steps in more detail, I want you to do some soul-searching. If you are determent to succeed with your mission, you have to reflect deeply on your motivation. Otherwise, you will act from a place of neediness, and you will not succeed.
When you want your ex-boyfriend back, ask yourself these two important questions:
The first question you have to ask yourself is, why do you want him back?
The second question you have to ask yourself is, do you really want him back?
Reflect on those questions
Take some time, go for a walk, listen to your favorite music, and try to come up with answers to both questions.
Spoiler alert. You shouldn’t want to get your ex back.
It’s a natural reaction to want him back. When we lose something, we want it back.
But in this case, it’s not a healthy reaction.
Exactly what is it you want back?
When you are thinking about getting your ex back, you probably think of those first blissful months. During that time, you really felt that you had met The One. Your search was finally over. You could easily imagine the two of you sharing a bright, fun future.
You don’t want the pain back
When you think about getting your ex back, what you probably don’t want to get back to is those last months (or weeks) when everything was falling apart. The pain and frustration of feeling him slipping away, no way you would want that back.
You want to get the good parts back.
Love is an extremely powerful emotion
The experience of falling in love is such a strong emotional push. When we fall in love, we are overwhelmed by our feelings and our joy. Having lots of sex doesn’t hurt the situation either.
When you break up, it’s hard to free yourself from that first rush of emotion when you were falling in love in the first place. It takes time.
Make sure you do want him back
Do you think it’s not possible to get over your ex?
Check out our guide How to get over your ex fast. Do the recommended exercise, even if you are certain you want your ex-boyfriend back. I guarantee that doing the exercise will make you getting him back much more likely
