7 Strategies to make your life fun and have him thinking about you
Can you use psychology to make someone miss you? Of course, you can. We miss someone we want more of. We miss someone who makes us feel good about ourselves. In this text, I will give you the best psychological strategies to make him miss you.
How to proceed when you want him longing for you
Give him space because it’s in our nature to want what is just out of reach.
Do your own thing. This will make you more interesting and ensure that you have stories to tell when the two of you meet up.
Men are visual; make sure you look your best and tease him by being flirty.
We feel good when someone is easygoing and is having a good time, so be fun to be around.
On top of this, you should also be mysterious and unpredictable to make him think about you and miss you because you are like no one else.
Let’s do it
Sounds easy, right? Let’s take a closer look at each step to understand the psychology behind it. We will use the knowledge to our advantage to make him miss you.
To make someone miss you; have fun
Often when we want someone to miss us, there is some form of physical and emotional distance. The man in question might be living in another country. Or, the relationship between the two of you might have ended.
Or there was never a relationship, to begin with, but you still want him to miss you. You have to adopt these 7 psychological strategies to your unique situation, use your creativity, and don’t forget to have fun.
Work towards being happy and content with your life
To make someone miss you, the only thing you have to do is to have fun, be passionate and live your life.
You have to be happy and content with your life, and you have to be in a place where you have the energy to give to other people.
Be a positive force
This way, you become a person who is great to be around, and when you are gone, people are going to miss you.
When you want a specific person to miss you, the tactic is the same, if you are enjoying your life, he will see you as someone special who is not easily replaced.
1. Give Him Space
To give him space is the first rule of making someone miss you.
This works on a psychological level because we are more inclined to want something that is just out of reach.
If you are always available, answering his texts and calls, hanging out with him whenever he wants to, there is never the space necessary for him to start missing you.
You are predictable
He knows where he has you. He knows what you are up to. He knows that he could be together with you if he wanted to. You are too accessible, and he doesn’t miss you.
Have your own busy life
Instead, make sure you don’t always play along with what he wants. Answer his texts in an unpredictable way, sometimes fast, sometimes slow, sometimes not at all.
Be the first to hang up when the two of you talk over the phone.
Tell him you have plans
Just say you are heading to the gym or something similar. Something with adrenaline and sweat and other men around. This will make his mind play a short movie of you working out, surrounded by a bunch of hot guys.
Don’t always be available when he wants to hang out
Don’t always be available to spend time together. Men can always sense (it must be their sixth sense) if you pretend to be busy or if you are really busy with lots of fun things going on.
So don’t think you can bluff your way to achieve this one. You should be on your way to the gym, not reaching for the bag of crisps
